tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post7502814695204748971..comments2023-10-09T04:58:06.342-04:00Comments on Just Cycling Along: Decisions, Decisions...justcyclingalonghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10098949192277080059noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-45277049807952401772012-07-10T16:58:21.854-04:002012-07-10T16:58:21.854-04:00Thanks for stopping by and the support! I love you...Thanks for stopping by and the support! I love your positive thinking. And I have to say, the stats are what I am most excited about. When the Dr. looked at me and said I would have a better than 50% chance of getting pregnant I felt like I saw a light at the end of the tunnel. It was the first time in a long time that I really believed that this could be over soon.justcyclingalonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10098949192277080059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-60523509309465899042012-07-10T16:56:35.498-04:002012-07-10T16:56:35.498-04:00Thanks for the support! I completely agree with yo...Thanks for the support! I completely agree with your main reason. When my last doctor said it was not the endo keeping me from getting pregnant, I was like, "well then what the heck is it?!?" to which he never gave me a straight answer. <br /><br />Hopefully you will not have to make this decision anytime soon. I am hoping we both get our "cliche babies" during this time off :)justcyclingalonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10098949192277080059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-22370070319398435692012-07-09T15:47:56.241-04:002012-07-09T15:47:56.241-04:00I know it's tough moving to IVF but I've m...I know it's tough moving to IVF but I've made great strides in the past month in turning toward positive thinking about it, and finding a way to be excited about it. Here's what I've come to: first off, it's not the last step. There are lots of other things to try if natural IVF doesn't work (ICSI, PGD, donor eggs, donor sperm, surrogacy, fostering, domestic adoption, international adoption, and more). Remember, IVF is as much a diagnostic procedure as a reproductive one.<br /><br />Also, IVF has much higher success rates than any other method, including natural conception! So that's pretty exciting to get to have such a great chance! I know it's scary but if you work hard to turn it around into a positive and exciting thing, it can actually be - dare I say it - kind of fun. It can be really tough too though! I don't want to sell it short. Everything Trisha said (expensive, time consuming, exhausting, emotionally draining, all that), but it's also the closest we'll have come to being pregnant in a long time. And I am SO thankful that we can physically and financially even attempt it, that's a blessing in and of itself. <br /><br />-Shelley @ Tales from the Waiting RoomAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-69026379089591879572012-07-09T13:37:26.327-04:002012-07-09T13:37:26.327-04:00I'm glad to read about someone else being unsu...I'm glad to read about someone else being unsure about IVF! So many people (even some doctors... *grumble*) have said to me "Why don't you just try IVF?" <br /><br />Oh I don't know, because it's expensive! Time consuming! Emotionally and physically exhausting! Hard on a relationship!<br /><br />And mostly, because none of you medical professionals can seem to find a reason why I can't get pregnant naturally anyway, so why should I jump to the end-game right now?<br /><br />I know this decision could well be in my near future, and I'm just glad to hear of someone else who is contemplating the process so thoroughly. I am also happy to read that your doctor is so understanding and accommodating! That's rare!! :) <br /><br />Good luck, and I'll be keeping an eye on your progress as September nears!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-33119797509983041992012-07-06T16:31:58.033-04:002012-07-06T16:31:58.033-04:00Thanks! As scary as it is, I know it is right for ...Thanks! As scary as it is, I know it is right for us. I am glad to have you here rooting us on though (it makes the journey a tad less scary to have support!).justcyclingalonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10098949192277080059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-48847855056642124162012-07-06T16:30:43.057-04:002012-07-06T16:30:43.057-04:00Thanks for the support! I am scared, but it is a g...Thanks for the support! I am scared, but it is a good scared. I probably will have a ton of questions so thanks for the offer. Now I just can't wait for everything to get started!justcyclingalonghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10098949192277080059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-58964567394591911332012-07-05T14:12:50.917-04:002012-07-05T14:12:50.917-04:00Huge questions. Huge decisions. Huge feelings. As ...Huge questions. Huge decisions. Huge feelings. As your (new!) RE said, there are no wrong choices here and it's not like you are making a flippant decision that you haven't thought long and hard about. Second guessing is bound to happen too, but if this feels right to both you and D, then go with it. <br /><br />I'm excited about your new doctor and your decisions to move forward- and will be right here with you every step of the way.Tuttihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05892495385717172227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8336539169192108791.post-35532361478522427342012-07-05T11:41:29.554-04:002012-07-05T11:41:29.554-04:00I know how difficult making the decision to go to ...I know how difficult making the decision to go to IVF is. I struggled with it for a while. I asked the "what if this doesn't work" question all the time. I still ask myself that. It is scary but I'm proud of you for conquering the decision to not only move to a new RE but to take that big step to IVF.<br /><br />Let me know if you have any questions, I've had 2 IVFs so far.<br /><br />Good luck!! :)-Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02034366104155889878noreply@blogger.com